In Memoriam 
Memories of General Robert Hilliard Barrow, USMC (ret)
27th Commandant of the U.S. Marine Corps




Semper Fidelis                                                                          

General Robert H. Barrow, USMC (ret), the 27th Commandant of the Marine Corps (1979-1983), died 30 October 2008 about 1 p.m. at his home in St. Francisville, Louisiana. He was buried there next to his wife Patty, who died in 2005. General Barrow’s five children were all present.

Among those attending the funeral on November 3 were General James Conway, present Commandant of the Marine Corps and former Commandants General Al Gray and General Carl Mundy and more than a dozen other Marine generals. General Barrow’s casket was escorted by three platoons of Marines in dress blue uniforms and a Marine band which marched to the graveside with muffled drums. An artillery piece fired a 19 gun salute and a Marine squad fired three volleys.

The general’s passing received extensive media coverage, including the New York Times, the Washington Post, the Baton Rouge Advocate and the Beaufort (South Carolina) Gazette.

News of the general’s death was quickly circulated among Marines and their friends. General Conway emailed a list of generals, admirals and friends of the Corps on the afternoon of the 30th. Other Marines passed on the emails, often adding their own personal memories of the exemplary service of General Barrow.

A group of Tulane University Marines in the late 1950s learned early of the general’s passing. We all shared with him service at the NROTC. About two dozen strong, these Marines have been assembling in recent years since General Barrow’s retirement in 1983. We met in places close to the general’s home for a few days to celebrate his birthday, 5 February. In 2006, our last meeting, we assembled at the NROTC Unit in New Orleans to dedicate a portrait and a plaque to our teacher, friend, mentor and commander. The NROTC building is the same one used during World War II to train Naval officers.

We exchange stories of our lives since leaving Tulane.  We are scattered over the U.S., businessmen and professionals of various kinds. Though we are all over 70 years old we constantly remind each other of those days a half century past.

U.S. Senator Jim Webb of Virginia was there in St. Francisville on 3 November. Two Medal of Honor recipients, veterans of service with the general in Vietnam,` were there.

President-elect Barack Obama telephoned and spoke with LtCol Rob Barrow, USMC (ret), the general’s son who was born in New Orleans.

Those of us who became known as “Barrow’s Tulane Marines” (the general’s phrase) first met him in 1957. Major Robert H. Barrow, tall, slim, broad-shouldered and completely, always correct had come to our New Orleans campus from we knew not where. We approached him with the insatiable curiosity of undergraduates combined with a certain awe that we were contracted to become U.S. Marine second lieutenants in 1959.

He wore a Navy Cross, a Silver Star, and two Bronze Stars among a thick field of other ribbons. It was not too difficult to discover he had been awarded those medals for combat behind the Japanese lines in World War II and the recently concluded war on the Korea peninsula. He fought a guerilla war in China and led Able Company, 1st Battalion, 1st Marines in the earliest fighting in Korea, including the legendary battle for Hill 1081 in December 1950.

But where had he been between Korea and New Orleans? Only recently did we learn, after 50 years, he was leading Chinese guerillas again in naval actions off Taiwan, secret operations he never mentioned.

After Tulane we all went our separate ways. Some left active duty as soon as their obligation of three years was fulfilled. Some transferred to the reserves. Only a few of us stayed in the active duty, regular Marine Corps. Those of us who did stay only occasionally crossed paths with General Barrow; but all knew what he was doing. He remained the example for his students of 1957. On rare occasions we contacted him directly for advice. When General Barrow became Commandant we were as proud as anyone — but none of us sought special privilege.

And when he retired in 1983 (after 41 years active duty)` a U.S. Senate committee asked him what did he intend to do, suggesting his success as a Marine might be transferred to some prestigious role in Washington, D.C.,` General Barrow said no, he was returning to Louisiana, where it was so quiet you could “hear a leaf fall on water.” (He did, however, accept appointment to the President’s Foreign Intelligence Advisory Board, a part time position.)

General Barrow died 30 October, just prior to a presidential election, the Marine Corps’s 233rd birthday on November 10, and Veterans Day 2008 on November 11. The rush of events swept over us but Marines are accustomed to riding the wave of history. General Barrow radiated the intellectual curiosity of a man who never avoided history’s embrace.

Major General Ron Richard, USMC (ret) and Col. Wayne Bienvenu, USMCR (ret) arranged for a moment of silence among the thousands attending the LSU-Tulane football game on 1 November in Baton Rouge.

As the general’s casket passed through St. Francisville the townspeople stopped and saluted the passing of the legendary general.

He lectured us in the spring of 1959 on Stonewall Jackson’s Valley Campaign. We attended closely to his words and when we looked at him I saw Douglas Southall Freeman’s Robert E. Lee, the very model of military chivalry, for those of us from the South.

In his homily, the Reverend John Senette of Grace Episcopal Church likened the general to Geoffrey Chaucer’s Christian Knight in the 14th century Canterbury Tales. “Robert Barrow was a Christian knight, worthy of honor, who lived Semper Fidelis: always faithful.”

The Reverend Senette and his congregation knew the general late in his life, when “the famous knight ended his questing and came among us to end his days. But although General Barrow had put aside his sword, he had not put aside his chivalry.”

We print the homily in full below because we are startled at how well the Bob Barrow seen by the priest at the end of his life describes the General Barrow we knew for a half century. For that matter Geoffrey Chaucer knew it too, 600 years ago. Chaucer’s Prologue concludes, “He was a truly perfect, gentle knight.” General Barrow was “Semper Fidelis” — faithful and honorable, to God, friends, family and the Corps.

<>                                                                                                                                                           Jack D. McNamara
                                                                                                                                                           LtCol USMC (ret)
                                                                                                                                                           14 November 2008



Funeral Homily
By The Rev. John Senette
November 3, 2008

               When I first met General Barrow in the late 70s, a distinct impression formed in my mind of the man that proved true as I got to know him personally.   Bob Barrow is the only man I have ever known that I would describe as a knight.  The concept of the ideal knight evolved in Western thought over several centuries. When that concept reached its maturity in the 14th century, the true knight was expected to be chivalrous, which had connotations of courtesy, gallantry and honor. The knight of the late middle ages was a valiant warrior who sought to live his warrior code as a Christian.

Those of us who live in St Francisville have never seen the warrior side of General Barrow. We heard the stories; we saw the faint glow of glory shining from afar: we listened to the enchanting echo that spoke of presidents and power: we were aware that he had had a dangerous and glorious life far from us. In St Francisville the famous knight ended his questing and came among us to end his days. But although General Barrow had put aside his sword, he had not put aside his chivalry.

Here in these latter days we saw his courtesy.  We experienced that gentle way he had dealt with people his whole life. The great man we knew never assumed his greatness among us. In reflection upon that amazing courtesy, Bob reminded me of what God revealed to one of the English mystics of the 14th century: In love is gentle courtesy. The true knight’s chivalrous courtesy comes from love and as Scripture teaches, love is the gift of God and the sure sign of the presence of God. Here the knight had put aside his sword, but not his chivalry.

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             Here in these latter days we also saw his gallantry. General Barrow had defeated the enemies of his country in battle, but here among us he was to fight the last battle no mortal wins. Bob’s decline was difficult for us to see, but we were all aware of how he continued to live with gallantry. His sense of duty toward God was revealed through his loyalty to the church. When many give up, he continued. Once several months ago while I was preaching, Bob appeared at the curtains of the bell tower. Painfully he had made his way from home to fulfill his duty: to worship God and receive the Sacrament of the altar. The moment I saw him I stopped preaching and with the whole congregation, watched has he slowly made his way to the first pew. He thought I stopped to be courteous, but it was much more than that. Bob’s presence was a sermon within the sermon and more eloquent than any of my words. What Grace Church saw that day (and on many others) was the gallant knight fulfilling his duty to God. Here the knight had put aside his sword, but not his chivalry.

Like all good things we know that chivalry can be perverted and used to manipulate others:  chivalry can become mere charm. So in the presence of chivalry the questions always rise:  How deep does it go? Is there consistency? Is there honor? What those who knew Bob Barrow learned was that he was a chivalrous husband; a chivalrous father; a chivalrous friend. His chivalry came deep from the heart from that place in which we humans have a relationship with God. Robert Barrow was a Christian knight, worthy of honor, who lived Semper fidelis: always faithful. In honoring him, ultimately we honor the Lord who dwelt in his heart and gave him that consistent faithfulness that is the essence of honor.

At the end of the 14th century Geoffrey Chaucer wrote the Canterbury Tales about a group of pilgrims making their way to a medieval shrine. In the Prologue that many of us wrestled with in school, Chaucer described one of those pilgrims, a knight, that conjures for me a picture of Bob Barrow.

A knight there was, and he was a worthy man,

That from the time that he first began

To ride forth, he loved chivalry,

Truth and honor, generosity and courtesy.

Full worthy was he in his lord’s war,

And therein had he ridden (no man further)

Both in Christian and in heathen lands,

And ever honored for his worthiness.

At many a noble landing had he been

In …mortal battles had he engaged.

And evermore he had a sovereign reputation.

And even though he was valiant, he was wise,

And in his manner meek as a maiden.

He had never uttered any vileness

In all his life, to any kind of person.

He was a truly perfect, gentle knight.

Today we honor this gentle knight and in so doing, give honor to God who dwelt in Bob’s heart. Today we praise God who has gathered our friend to himself in love.